The Gold: HOW TO SATISFY YOUR PARTNER AFTER YOU'VE CLIMAXED

After a session of energetic sex & lovemaking💦, you collapse to the bed, spent & dead (pathetic).

There's only one thing left to do, apart from getting a glass of water or going to the bathroom; it's time to CUDDLE.

Not just only cuddle
Rather;
• some kissing 💋
• some touching
• Some oral techniques on her clit 💦😋
• dirty talks while she sleeps on your arms

When men climax, that’s usually a sign that his role in the sexual encounter is over.- this is always so painful to the ladies...

Naturally, that means it’s hyper-important not to finish too soon ...

but why, exactly, can’t men keep going after an orgasm like women? And what can you do if you want to keep pleasuring your partner afterwards, but don’t feel capable of engaging in any further penetration?

Luckily, there’s no reason the sexual moment has to end just because you had an orgasm.

So the reason why some men tends to relax after they have orgasm is because of:

The Post-Orgasmic State for Men

Many men have difficulty in having vigorous physical activity after an orgasm.

The male orgasm tends to put many men into a post-orgasm state of bliss and relaxation which does not lend itself to much more physical activity.
You grab?

There is a term for the period men experience between one orgasm and another: THE REFRACTORY PERIOD.

If you have a penis, you will not be able to ejaculate during this time. - “This duration is different for everyone and most of the time, this is out of your control. Duration of the refractory period can vary by age or according to various medical conditions.”

Once the refractory period is over, however, you’ll be able to orgasm again. That’s when your refractory period will begin anew. In order to shorten your refractory period, I suggest you work on your stamina.

Start from the post-orgasmic state and also read the refractory period and you will understand my point
Okay let me explain the following terms so we understand more.

• post-orgamsic state
• refractory period
• edging during masturbating

REFRACTORY PERIOD

In human sexuality, the refractory period is usually the recovery phase after orgasm during which it is physiologically impossible for a man to have additional orgasms.This phase begins immediately after ejaculation and lasts until the excitement phase of the human sexual response cycle begins anew with low level response.

EDGING
Edging (also called surfing, peaking, teasing, and more) is the practice of stopping yourself from reaching orgasm

While post-orgasmic state is that period after an Orgasm.

THE POST-ORGASMIC STATE FOR WOMEN

What does the post-orgasmic state look like for women? Well, it’s not completely different — they also experience a feeling of pleasurable relaxation — but it’s far from the same, in large part because they don’t have a refractory period the way men do.

It's actually pretty impressive.
“Women's brains are more responsive to arousal and stimuli after the first orgasm, and many of them barely need a break between one orgasm and continued stimulation.”

That’s not to say that women don’t need breaks at all. Besides the possibility of simply feeling physically or emotionally exhausted, they can also become quite sensitive after an orgasm, particularly a clitoral one.

The clit is made up of thousands of nerve endings, and is especially sensitive and engorged after an orgasm.
“Unless a woman has trained herself or is able to be multi-orgasmic, vigorously stimulating the clitoris again after an orgasm can be difficult.

It isn't impossible, but you'll just have to take a break and start stimulation from scratch again.

In that case, many women might “prefer a switch in the type of stimulation, to give specific nerves a break,”.

“But [some] women can even push through from one orgasm straight into the next with the same stimulation.” - pornstars does this a lot

So where does that leave you? Regardless of your partner’s gender, if you climax first, there’s a good chance your partner will want things to keep going, and you might feel totally incapable of continuing. If you’ve ever experienced that sensation, here are a few tips that’ll give both of you a happier ending.

HOW TO SATISFY YOUR PARTNER AFTER YOU’VE ORGASM

Engage in Some Sensual Kissing

Don't overcomplicate things
“Start by kissing them from top to bottom during your refractory period. This is a time to truly enjoy some serious foreplay.

As well, “Licking 💋 all of the sensitive areas of their body — nipples, ears and neck to show your partner that you may have ‘finished’ but you aren't done and still want to enjoy their body. Your mouth is really going to come in handy during this time.

No fuck finish, then you carry boxer wear run out. Or you sleep like a baby.

Engage in Some Sensual Touching

Trace her curves, give small kisses, show her how good your post-orgasm glow feels by staying connected and in contact.

“This may be an especially good time for some external clitoral touch for her, as well.”

Try something this 👇

• Dick on her butt🍆🍑
• Hand on her tit, with two finger working on the nipple.
• Kissing on the neck. 💋
• Other hand in her pussy, with your two fingers working on her clitoris.💦

Use a Sex Toy

After you have had an orgasm, this is the perfect time to try out that new sex toy that just arrived.

“It takes the pressure off of you to reach and maintain another erection, and she will enjoy it as you bring her to another climax.

Need some suggestions? “If you're soft and need a labor-saving device, a toy such as an Njoy Pure Wand or a Hitachi [Magic Wand] can be great to keep pleasure going for her if you need to have a small breather”.

Perform Oral Sex on Your Partner

Go down on your partner during this time.

“Who doesn't want to enjoy oral? Take your time and go slow. Who knows? You may end up getting stimulated all over again and ready for another session!”

And if you’re feeling particularly exhausted, you can get your partner to sit on your face, allowing you to lie on your back essentially without moving any body part except your tongue.

Staying in the Mood Until You’re Ready for Round 2

If you don’t feel physically capable of engaging in kissing, stroking, sex toy use or oral sex, you can also just try to stay in the mood until you’re ready for more sex.

Stay focused and keep your mindset on having another orgasm. “Think of everything that turns you on about your partner and just focus on that.

You can think of their body, the hot sex you've just had, something sexy they do that you like — whatever it is, just be sure to convince your mind that you aren't done. Your body will follow as soon as your refractory period is over.”

If mental control isn’t your thing or something you struggle with,
then try wearing erotic materials to get back into the mood.

High quality adult films can actually be interesting as far as plot and narrative, so this is a good way of staying in the mood until you are ready for more action.

If the movie has a really bad plot and acting (as in so many porn films), it’s a fun opportunity to have a good laugh together.

Or, as Play notes, you can actually ask for a break. That might go against your instinct; men are typically expected to be gifted sexual performers, but the reality is that sometimes your body just needs a breather.

Don't be afraid to ask for a little break, but stay attentive to her!.

“If your partner feels like you're just doing it out of obligation, though, then it won't be sexy at all.

Don't fake it! Take the break you need and stay affectionate in the meantime (whatever that looks like for the two of you).

A lot of women's arousal comes from being wanted and desired, which isn't just shown by having an erection.

Show her your desire with touch, words, gazing and more.

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