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Saturday, 18 April 2020

What May Leads To Cheating & How To Overcome It - Married Men & Women

THIS WILL ACTUALLY IMPROVE AND REPAIR YOUR MARRIAGES

Apart from other things, being submissive, tolerance, behaviours etc some marriages have broken due to husbands or wife's performance when comes to sex, women are different while men are also.Some women wants it for long time, while some don't even have urge for sex but Satisfy their husbands anytime he wants it.



Likewise men, some wants sex anytime and everyday, while some had it only once or twice in a week. As a man try to know the kind of woman you married, same applies to woman.

Some woman, after been disvirgined, they wants more of sex, and after first, second, childbirth, somehow lost interest in sex and doesn't care anymore how her husband feels which leads men to getting a Side Chick that will take care of his sex urge since the wife ain't there same like before.

So when some women can't get satisfaction from their hubby, they step outside to find better performance man instead to find a solution to her husband's deficiency.
   
Read this of a cheating wife example and learn overcoming it.

"Send me a photo of your nipples" the other man sent her a message on WhatsApp.
She walked to the bathroom. Locked the door then strapped down her night dress. Took a photo of her breasts then sent to the other man.
"Tomorrow you will get to touch these" she texted the other man.
She got out of the bathroom smiling then got inside the bed where her husband was.
Tomorrow she will be going to finally meet the man she's been flirting with. This man has promised her great sex, sex out of this world. She complained to the other man about how her husband is weak in sex, a one minute man. This other man promised to sex her real good.
She was excited. She really wants sex. Good sex.
This other man sent her a picture of his penis.
She held her phone close, saw the penis picture.
"Who is that?" Asked her husband.
"It's Karo. She is confirming that we are going for a kesha at her church tomorrow night" she told her husband.
It was a lie. She is not going for a kesha with Karo tomorrow, she is going to meet up with the other man in a hotel to have mind blowing sex that no one has to know.
"Let me text her to tell her I will meet her at six in the evening" she lied to her husband.
"Say hello to her" her innocent husband said.
"OK" she said.
"That is the biggest penis I have ever seen. I can't wait for it to slide and cum inside me. You are making me hot. Keep him warm for me" she texted the other man.
She placed her fingers between her legs. She had shaved. Ready for tomorrow's sex.
Her husband started touching her, leaning towards her to kiss her and make love to her, his wife.
She pulled away. Denied her husband her body.
"I am not in the mood" she said.
"I love you" her husband said and turned the other way and slept.
She felt a sting in her heart.
What is she doing?
She has turned into a liar.
Her marriage is falling apart by her lusting after another man. How is she to work on her marriage if she is focusing on the penis of another man?
She stared at the wall. She couldn't sleep.
So tomorrow after she has mind blowing sex, what next? This man wants to sex her even if it means cheating on her husband. He just wants sex, nothing more. How many other women is he sexing and sending pictures of his penis to? If she gets pregnant, he will not want to be a father.
This other man doesn't even care about her dreams, her fears, her children, her future, her relationship with God. All he wants is her vagina, butt and nipples. He doesn't bother knowing her heart.
Her husband on the other hand is the sweetest man in the world. He married her. Is a great father. He is loving. He supports her. Strives to make her happy. Thoughtful. Good looking. His sex may not last long but he makes her feel loved. She has a good husband.
She cried. Asked God for forgiveness.
She picked up her phone. Deleted the penis picture on her phone.
"I can't do this any more. What we have been doing is wrong. I love my husband. I will not cheat on him. Do not contact me any more. I want nothing to do with you" she texted the other man and blocked his number so that he can't call or text her.
She switched her phone off.
Removed her night dress.
Took her fingers to her husband's nipples and started rubbing them.
Her husband woke up.
She took her fingers down his penis.
Removed his penis from his boxer shorts.
He started getting hard.
"I want you" she whispered to his ear.
He got really hard as she stroke his penis.
She sat on him and made love to him.
When she sensed he was about to orgasm, she stood up and showed to him her breasts.
She then gently came down on her bed, laid on her back.
"Make love to me" she requested.
He got up and went on top of her.
They made sweet love.
She made him relax and he lasted longer. She helped him hold his hardness for longer.
Sweet orgasm, they both had.
That was the sweetest pleasure they have ever had as husband and wife.
She has never felt that good before. They had learned each other's body better than before.
"I love you" she told her husband.
"I love you too" said her husband.
"I really love you. Thankyou for being such an amazing husband" she added.
"You are in a good mood" her husband said smiling.
"I am a blessed wife, that's why. I have decided to stay at home tomorrow night. I will stay at home and pray with you and our marriage. Let's have a kesha as husband and wife" she said.
"I love the sound of that my love" her husband said.
They kissed and slept peaceful and happy.
The greatest sex is not outside your marriage, it is at home, with your spouse. The kind of sex that comes with love, joy, peace, fulfilment no regrets,and no guilt.




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Advice To Ladies Dating Married Men (Must Read)

ADVICE TO LADIES!! See What Happens Next The Moment You Agree To Date A Married Man.



"The moment you agree to date a married man, you agree to be a second class woman, and every second class person is classified as a person of lower values."



 Now look at it this way.. If he is with you & his wife calls, he lies that he is still at the office or on an official assignment.You dare not interrupt his conversation or query him. But you can't call him when he is at home with family.

Young woman are you a toy? He sneaks you from his car into his hotel room but gives his wife his entire home.

My beloved sisters grow up, please! He visits you at home & you introduce him to friends & neighbours as your boyfriend thereby blocking your chances of getting a genuine suitor, yet you don't even know the name of the street where he lives.

My sisters, how long will you continue to sacrifice your future? He takes you out & buys you assorted types of alcoholic drinks, yet he will never allow his wife taste even a drop of alcoholic drink. Common sense should tell you he is only doing that to get you drunk so he can truly destroy you in bed.




Ladies, did you love using your  precious Womb for experiment? He gets you pregnant & gives you money for abortion, but when his wife gets pregnant he celebrates & gives her money for antenatal & baby things.

However, remember he is already raising his family. Oh just in case you don't know, he describes your emotions when he is with his friends but will never mention whatever happens between him & his wife. This makes all his friends see a lesser human in you......

My sisters,  he gists with friends drinking beer over your matter. He gives you a few cash & you're happy not knowing that whatever money he gives you is what he calls "Body no be firewood allowances" You have his picture on your phone & saved his number as "My Sweetheart" or whatever, yet your picture cannot be found on his phone & your number is saved on his phone as generator mechanic or refuse dispose.

Dear Ladies, are you  a learner?. PLEASE let's give ourselves a proper re-evaluation today. Please help me to pass this message round to educate our ladies by sharing to everyone. Just a piece of advice.Thanks.


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( Reasons & Opinions) Why Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Marriages.


"During the time of our fore fathers, marriage were highly valued without minding the man or woman's material background,  nowardays, marriage is based on  whom you are in the society, and your financial standing at the moment, but when condition changes to bad, the marriage  goes down the drain"

'CONTENTMENT, NON MATERIALISTIC RELATIONSHIP, selflessness, non social media generation And no faking of feelings"

"It is just the fact that, women of those stage are more ,respective, endurance, and tends to support there husband.
But ladies of nowadays already have bad thought from there worst relationship and will turn it to to their home when they re in the marriage.
ASA song, my mother has never from that's Why I'm loving u,cos of children she suffer in husband house"





"They didn't fight a lot like we do because someone in the couple was made a fool n tolerated but as for us no one will agree to being fooled'

"Our heads dey hot, no respect nor submission"

"Too much of fake lady and woman selling their pussy"

"They tolerated each other more than this generation"

"Gain in knowledge in modern days"

"Our generation are filled with the words of gals are much Dan boys so Dey feel Dey can get whomever Dey want thereby never valued any relationship Dey are into, gals too be doing cheating cus of flashy materials things. In those days u are married today tomorrow you are going to farm,  love wasn't based on materials things,  love was natural nd marriage was meant or aimed at producing children,  not nowadays abortion support by boyfriend ideas or opinion in the name of am not ready yet, Our generation can never get better dis way" .

"It due to  lack of contentment and satisfaction. "

"Because there was no bicycle style,keke nape style,doggy style,cat style,lizard style,and there was nothing like,how long do you last during sex,nothing like beauty,handsome and financial status,the world is polluted 😂"

"Because there's no genuine love of our present generation"

"Times has changed, back then women had little to no rights, women had no education and no careers, so they were stuck with the one who provides and even if he did not provide it was an abomination to leave, and if they tried to leave there was no law protecting them. Up untill resently women still had men simply abusing them and doing what ever he want untill laws was out into place. But with all said women of the past persevered and did everything to keep their families . Now women can do what men do. We are entrerpreneurs, professional, and even builders miners, and pilots. And many more, so we can keep our own. It no longer a financial issue, so it's what can you do that I can't do for myself besides bring dick to the table. Just saying"

"Because are civilize world...the both sides are after money"


''Our fathers - Submission,, respect,, humility,, faithfulness and hard work from our mothers..Our present generation - pride,, ego,, rude,, cheating,, arrogance and laziness of our ladies.. Our fathers married queens but we are marrying slay-queens.."


"During that time 90%of women do respect their husbands and there is no flashy things then and flashy  things away deceive women another thing is that women of nowadays are very stubborn and arrogant hardly they submit to there husbands in the side of men some of them don't know what is marriage they enter into to have children that is why many of them flirt but generally women contribute 60%of marriage breaking do to their arrogant and stubbornness"


"They tolerated each other more than this generation"

"Dishonesty"

"Because they love fleshly, having been exposed to the technology age, where ladies see brighter than what they are made of, men see destructive pleasure more important than the love they desired, 
Marriage of pity, (Marrying someone because you have dated for so long and ordinarily she isn't compatible for you, some still consider to marry them because they think they have wasted their time and committed to that relationship, and also believing that with time the love will overpower the weakness of their partner,)  marrying a lady because she gets pregnant for you nd the culture and tradition banns abortion so you will be tempted to marry!  
Exposure to the world, some ladies that are already exposed to enjoyment of the earthly things,  such like clubs,  party, drinking, some smoking, and wearing of some skimpy dresses, tasting of different kanda finds it difficult to cope when married to maybe unexposed hubby and even some hubby finds it hard to keep digging an unending hole, 
Some says my wife pussy is too wide, 
Some says my husband does not satisfy me on bed and their ladies friends will give them an option B and C which is find a sugar boy or Divorce, 
Some of these ladies friends are likely married ladies that has been doing it, maybe with their husband brothers. 
I channel these last point as those that engaged in No Sex Before marriage, that's why most a times Sex before marriage is important as to enable you choose and detect the kind of partner you are about settling down with in terms of Sexual act. 
Ladies love to do wat others are doing, my friend Sandra's husband bought her a new brand Car therefore if you can't do as your fellow man, and so on. "



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Thursday, 16 April 2020

"What Man Need Is Not S3X ONLY"- A Note To All Young Ladies Going Into marriage

WHAT A HUSBAND NEEDS FROM A WIFE IS NOT ONLY S3X.

Sex is an important element in marriage and until there is sexual intercourse between a husband and a wife, the marriage is not yet spiritually recognised. This shows how important sex is in marriage. When you look at how agressive men are towards sex you may think that what a man needs from a woman is sex. 



Of course, if he has not married you yet or he does not really intend to marry you what he will need from you is nothing above your body. But if he really intends to marry you or if you guys are already married sex is never what he needs from you - maybe let me say it better; "WHAT A MAN NEEDS MOST FROM A WOMAN IS NOT SEX." Many young girls think because they are
 sexually active and experience they will

easily be married and have their husbands

loving them. And when a man approaches

for marriage they think the greatest asset

they have to show the man is sex. Others also think once they are giving out their

bodies it means they are giving out the best

for which reason they will be chosen above

all. There is this young girl who is very

beautiful and sexually active. Due to that

she thought sex is all that matters to a man.



Ironically, she struggled for long before

finally getting married. Her sexual dexterity

could not win her the heart of a man until out of the blue and reason beyond imagination a very handsome good man

married her. The wedding was grand and

her tears were now gone. Unfortunately

only a year after the wedding the marriage

fell on rocks. Within five years three different men came her way but none could

stay. The problem was simple. She thought sex was all that matters so she would never

submit. But submission is what men need,

not sex. It is time for our young ladies to

know that when a man is ready to marry he

will not look out for a woman who will satisfy his sex drive but a woman who will

submit herself to him. Excuse my language,

"every woman has vagina but not every

woman has humility." So when you are a

humble woman, you are an expensive

jewelry. And a man of integrity will fear to lose you.



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Wednesday, 15 April 2020

5 Tested And Proven Rules In Getting Right Partner

Many singles when it comes to knowing who to marry becomes confused . Many have been given superficial tips by some relationship bloggers, counselors or self-made relationship therapist. 


What I'm about to share with you would help you get it right if you could adopt these tested and proven rules.

Many I add this: marriage becomes successful when the right person marries the right person, and they apply the right principles for a successful marriage and they involve the right person. It just have to be right, otherwise, it'll be wrong. 

How can I know if this person is the right person? 

Only a right person can know who is right, and who is wrong under the right condition and influence. 

The following tips would help you to know who is the right person. 

1. Be the right person

It takes a thief to know a thief. 

If you're not the right person, it'll be difficult for you to know the right person. 

Are you the right person? 

What makes you the right person has to do with the rightness of your heart (spirit and soul) and your right understanding about marriage and life in general. 

You may pass all the basic maturity test (mental, physical, financial, social emotional or spiritual), but it doesn't mean you are the right person. 

A person may walk up to you for marriage but their heart isn't right with you because they have an hidden agenda or motive for coming into your life. This is why you can't fully know the right person through physical observation because the heart of men and women is evil, deep and desperately wicked, only God can know it. 

See, you are not the right person when your understanding about marriage is wrong. 

If you believe that women are done a favor by marrying them; that all men are polygamous in nature; that divorce is an option in marriage or cheating is one of the inevitables of life; then you have a wrong understanding of marriage. 

If you even marry angel Gabriel or virgin Mary, you will still end up with a bad marriage if you are not the right person. 

If the right person marries the wrong person or vis-a-vis, the marriage will fail or become an enduring one. 

Next is that you must... 



2. Be connected to the person who will make you know the right person

Sounds confusing? Read on! 

Man, with the best of all his acquired knowledge and understanding can't know the right person unless God opens his eyes to see the right person. 

Many are not connected to the right person (God) but wants to know the right person without Him. How possible it that? 

You need a personal and intimate relationship with God so He can reveal or guide you to the right person. 

Don't ever think you can know the right person without God because only Him knows the right person that will accept your past, present and future. 

Dear ladies, be so connected to God that it will take a man whose heart is right with God to find you as his help meet. 

Dear men, be a man after God's own heart that God will have to bring one of His daughters that He has made to you as a wife. 

Please, treasure your personal relationship with God more than church activities or being religious. 

Ask for the grace to love Him and fellowship with the Holy Spirit, as this would sharpen your spiritual senses to know the right person. 

More so...

3. Be at rest

Adam wasn't "dating" all the animals in search of the right person. God gave him a divine anesthesia and he fell into a deep sleep. 

Brother, go and rest. 

My sister, quit looking for Mr. Right. 

When you are at rest, you will be calm enough to recognize the right person when they come. But if you are jumping from Jane to Janet, or from John to Justus, you will be confused, anxious or frustrated in your human search for the right person. 

Rest puts you into a hibernate mode, while God is busy working out the right person for you. But if you are busy looking for Mr or Miss Right, God becomes at rest while He watches you doing it in your own way. 

Those who are at rest leaves everything in God's hands while He gives them His best. 

4. Compatibility

Having adopt items 1-3, you will know the right person through your agreement in so many ways. 

The right person will be compatible with you in your desire to fulfill your divine purpose. There will be mutual agreement in almost all critical issues of life, or you two can easily align your differences to reach an agreement. 

Compatibility has nothing to do with sex. Don't seek to practicalize it before marriage. You can talk things out if there are differences. 

There must be compatibility in goals, visions, divine purpose and in other important areas. 



5. Through divine revelation or spiritual discernment 

Last but very important, your ability to know the right person is tied to how functional your spiritual senses are. 

Adam could spiritually discern the woman as his bone of bones and flesh of flesh. The Bible didn't tell us that he dreamt or saw visions, there was a knowing in his heart that was deep enough and it was beyond her physical appearance, material possessions or personality impression - it is called discernment. 

More so, divine revelation comes through dreams, vision or trance. Only God determines whether the right person will be revealed to you through that means. 

Do not also forget that dreams could be manipulated by the devil or originates from your own thoughts. 

Dear readers, knowing the right person is not a rocket science, and it's not something you will know suddenly if you don't have a track record of an intimate relationship with God. 

Don't wait till you are ready for marriage before you draw closer to God. It takes time to know God and His ways. Start now, don't wait until you're "ripe" for marriage before you begin the journey. 

Remember, love is best expressed, and marriage is sweet when the right person marries each other and they apply the right principles, with their involvement of the right person (God).
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Must Read For Ladies: Vagina Tighten (Advice & Side Effects)

Ladies stop allowing guys to push you into taking your own life by indulging in some certain surgeries or using chemicals.


Example is your vagina. A lot of ladies has developed cancer of the vagina due to pleasure from their men. Ladies don't allow any guy to make you to do otherwise, don't feel u are wayward or wired that is why your vagina is wide or deep. Dear ladies , don't mind him, we have different sizes of vagina the way we have types of pennies. (Large, medium and small). You can have a wide Virginia based on nature, sometime 
infection. 


Babies try to know the size of your vagina. The size will help you to know the suitable size of pennis. The size of your lip is exactly the size of your website. When is naturally wide and a small penni's enter, I will be labeled as a harlot while you are innocent. 

Don't worry, stop using vagina tighten because cancer is knocking, stop using soap to wash it because u are killing the glands that produces the fluids needed to lubricate and cleanse vaginal area 
Stop self induce( washing with chemicals to have a nice smell and small size).
 Some vagina tighten just swells up the vagina wall muscles then thinking it's tighten.

What u should know is dat a normal size of it is 3 to 4 inches and it can grow in size When arouse, some times arouse more than . This doesn't mean you are wired. Just do your best to maintain the shape of your vagina by:

1. Kegel exercise
2. Sex
3. What u eat
4.Sitting positions

Age can also make it to grow in size and d clitoris can shrink.
Just try to be eating good food for a healthy vagina like yogurt, cranberries,biotics and yeast and finally keep it clean and away from infections.(mind the kind of condom that is being inserted in your body, some are highly chemicalized). 

Lesson: Be yourself and avoid cancer of private bodies. On a very good day, guys we talk about the sizes of penis, stop enlargement. 

You can also read how to take care of your penis



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Tuesday, 14 April 2020

Must Read For Men "Reasons Why Ladies Turn Down Marriage Proposal" (Opinions)

Majority always keeps wondering what can make a woman turns down a marriage proposal which is very heartbroken. There are some behaviours men must watch and repairs and improve to avoid been a victim.


Below are some women reasons about this.


'He doesn't call and when I call he tells me people he owe wants to arrest him....if I send him money he will say is too small that I should send more money"

"he was too  shorty ☺☺"

"He too brag abt his wealth but i taught him a lesson of money is good but not everything,God gives & can take it back anytime"

"He isn't healthy down there"

"He has many ladies at hand when I ask he always defend his self by telling me they re just friends nothing is but he sleeps with them. He use a lady pix as WhatsApp profile when I ask he said she is his cousin sis Secondly, he never give me money but always asking from me. So, I step out quickly"

"He always speak about his late wife I don't want to compete with dead".

"Instead of him to speak to me directly, he sent his Pastor.'

'He is hot temper ,he hardly forgives ,every little offence he reports me to his colleagues family members including my own family members which will call me to ask what happened without me having knowledge of what I have done wrong to him and also is what his younger sister said is final so I walk out of the relationship even after introduction"

"Cos some guys are boyfriend material not husband same goes to girls, it's just a point ok"

"Love someone else"

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(Tips & Steps) Right Partner For Marriage

Choosing a life partner is a huge decision and one not to take casually. When choosing a person to marry, ask yourself lots of questions and evaluate what you want – the real why you want to marry.



Identify your best qualities and the things you can improve upon – what you have to offer. Know your own role and responsibilities in creating a happy relationship and recognize that it’s up to you to create the relationship you want. Look for someone who complements and brings out the best in you, such as your sense of humour and love for others. Talk about your differences and any potential problems that may arise if you do become married.

🔸️Be comfortable about yourself: You should feel comfortable expressing yourself without the fear of people’s judgment or ridicule. If you feel pressure to be someone else or act a certain way to get their attention, especially around the person you propose to marry, it is a terrible sign. Don’t ignore the source of the problem! Identify why and address the causes before you proceed.


🔸️Put Yourself First: What is your purpose – your vision- know your goals and what you want to do with your life. Then, ask would they support you and be a part of it. The person you marry should be the person that will help you grow and be a better person in all spheres of life, someone who will support you and encourage you to pursue your desires and dreams. 

🔸️️Identify Your Personal Needs: What you admire in a man / woman, how you like to enjoy the time you spend together. Write a list of the things you desire and the things you aren’t willing to compromise on, like religion or habit. Think about what kind of person you would like to build a future with. If you’re currently with someone, be honest with yourself: do you really feel good about your relationship or if you are waiting for something else deep inside.

🔸️️️Does the person want marriage as much as you: If you’re trying to find husband/wife, ensure the person you’re dating want to get married. If your relationship is getting serious, ask about his future hopes and dreams. If they don’t include marriage in their answer, ask them about it. If you’re waiting years for someone to come around, have a serious discussion and let them know what you want. Do not be afraid to ask this question, and do not put off asking because you are afraid of their answer. If you are serious about getting married someday, you should know if your significant other is on the same page or not. It is important you know.

🔸️Shared values: Discuss the biggies! Do you share the same desires when it comes to having kids or not? At least two of your relatives got divorced because the answer to this question was no. Do you have similar attitudes toward religion or spirituality? Do you agree about general personal finance practices — debt payments, savings, binge purchases? Think about how this might affect your potential marriage, family, and future children. Other things to consider are compatibility: how you complement one another, conflict styles: how they express anger, and lastly, don't underestimate the weight of this one, as it has had a huge impact on your parents' marriage: When it comes to spending time with each other's families (holidays, vacations) and taking care of aging parents, are you in agreement on what's reasonable?

🔸️Explore emotional compatibility: You shouldn’t have to beg for your future spouse’s attention. You should connect on an emotional level. Look for a person you can openly talk to and who makes you feel understood emotionally during times of hardship and in times of celebration. (Note: This is not about seeking sexual compatibility – there’s no such thing. Nothing about sex and our bodies is ever constant). Don't let lust be your guide!
Look before you jump!
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Monday, 13 April 2020

5 Ways To Know The Right Partner

The major questions Singles have on their mind are:

1. How do i know i have found the right partner?
2. How do i know he or she loves me?

Well, these two questions are in so many people's minds, if you are one of them then this is the right post for you. 



There are a lot of ways to know if he is Mr. Right or Mrs. Right and if they love you. In this post, i will be sharing with you my top 5 ways to know if they love you and if they are right for you. 

1. THEY TRUST YOU WITHOUT SPYING ON YOU.

The truth is that trust is earned with time and trust can be broken in a few secs. So this is a vital key to a successful relationship.

If anyone you are dating keeps spying on you, if they have informants planted all over the city monitoring your movement then you are most likely with the wrong person. 

True love needs a lot of trust. So if they trust you, if they know that you won't misbehave even when the pressure is much to do so then he/she is probably the right person. 

If they allow you to hang out with the opposite sex that is your friend knowing you won't do anything stupid then add that to your checklist.

2. THEY WILL SUPPORT AND RESPECT YOUR DREAMS.

This is vital. Any man or woman who doesn't support you to pursue your dreams is someone you, by all means, need to avoid because is you get married to them its just a matter of time before you start feeling great frustration. 

A man or woman that love you will be your number 1 fan, they will be there to support and sing your praise, in moments you feel like giving up they will be there to encourage you and lift you up. 

If they go extra miles to set you up to achieve your dreams, sister, brother, hold them tight. They are rare. Add that to your checklist. 




3. YOU CAN DISAGREE.

If your current partner agrees with everything you say or do, this is a big red flag. No human will always agree with you in all things. No. Its either they are pretending or lying just to prevent you from leaving.

There is a place of disagreement in every relationship. So if you can disagree without hurting each other with words, then they love you and could be the right partner.

You argue with each other but it's not about who wins or loses. It about the situation. If they leave the situation at hand and start attacking you during a disagreement or argument he or she is not right for you.

So a sign they are the right one for you is that both of you can disagree without hurting each other. So add that to your checklist. 

4. YOU CAN BE YOURSELF AROUND THEM.

Let me ask, what's the point of being in a relationship where you can not be yourself?

You pretend morning, afternoon and night because if you show your true color they might leave you...

If they will leave because you can play too much then they should leave. It's better they leave now than leave tomorrow in marriage when you can no longer act that script of pretense. There is someone out there looking for exactly someone like you.

So, if you can't be your true self around them because they want you to act just in a particular way that pleases them then they are mostly the wrong person for you.

But if they love you for who you are, with all your craziness, stubbornness, annoyanceness, goodness, funness, laziness, seriousness, etc (add the rest of the "ness" you known) , then they are the right one for you. Add that to your checklist

(ND: if any of your ness is negative, try to get rid of it because it will help them love you more). 

5. THEY HELP YOU GROW SPIRITUALLY.

So as you know, I stand with godly relationships. For many people in the world, this might not be a standard for them, but for you in the kingdom reading this, this should even be number 1 for you.

Trust me, any man or woman that is pulling you down spiritual is not the right partner for you and definitely not God's choice for you. If all they do is make you confess sins everyday, sister, brother, they are not the one for you. 

The right partner will help nurture you to grow spiritually, they will initiate mediums to help you grow together. They will be your prayer partner instead of your prayer point for change always. So this should be number 1 on your checklist. 




There are many other ways to know but these top 5 is a good place to start, if they are failing in any of the above 5, well you have a lot to figuring out to do. 

One believe that the right partner should be good in these 5 top areas.

How else do you know he is Mr. Right or she is Mrs. Right. Leave your answer on the comments section.
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Must Read For Singles & Married "Repair And Improve Your Marriage"

You Can Enjoy Your Marriage... It's Up To You! Many marriages are just for sleeping and waking up, raising kids and ageing together till death comes. This is not right. Marriage must be enjoyable and romantic.


1.Many couples hardly kiss and they only hug each other when they receive good news.

2. The husband only puts food in his wife's mouth only when she is terminally ill and cant feed herself.

3. If you see a man opening car door for his wife means the door is faulty.

4. The only thing that makes an african man touch his wife's neck is when she complains of fever. He wont touch it again till the next fever.

5.The only time he can carry his wife on his arms is when she is in labour.

6. If you see them seated outside at night, dont think they are romantic. They are only waiting for the smell of insecticide to vanish.

7.Many wives buy gifts for their husbands only when they are hospitalized.

8.The only time they race together is when there is danger and everyone is running.

9.The only time they go for evening stroll is when they want to go and lay a complain to the parents of the person that beat their child.

10.  The only time they bath together is when both are late for work.

11. The only time a wife looks closely to her husband's eyes is when he complains of dirt in his eyes.

Unfortunately, Africans feel that any romantic man is being controlled by his wife. They will begin to spread bad rumours. 
Let us just change today for the better. Let us learn to love one another and enjoy the few days we have on earth together! 

THIS GOES TO ALL MARRIED COUPLES AND THOSE PREPARING TO GET MARRIED SOON.
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Sunday, 12 April 2020

How To Initiate Sex With Partner (Women Version *tips & steps*) #marriedmatters #sexeducation

Intiating sex is an important part of any relationship where sex means a lot to you both. It shouldn't always fall on one partner to be the one to initiate, because being wanted feels nice, right? But also, initiating sex can feel like a tricky thing to do so much potential misunderstanding, and maybe even rejection. 


If you communicate well with your partner, this shouldn't happen (or at least if they're not in the mood, you'll know it's because they don't feel like it, not because there's anything wrong with you). 

As a matter of fact there are different opinions and confessions about how ladies initiate sex from their partner, like wearing bikinis 👙 when he's around, touching vital part like prick, kissing, body language, text etc.

Few Ladies Confessions below on how they initiate sex with their partners.

"I start by Kissing, fondling, groping, usually followed by, do you want to get naked with me?" 
😅

"I get naked or if we are cuddling, 98% of the time it will leads to sex." 
😜

"I just jump on him and drag him to bed. He responds well to that. Or we escalate from cuddling, to making out, to bed." 
😉

"I ask him...'Michael, are you in the mood?'"
🤗

"When I’m initiating sex I’m generally not subtle. A kiss on the back of his neck while I grab his dick and run my hands all over him. Sometimes I just crawl into his lap and kiss him."
😋

"I say, Hey, take off your boxers."

"Kisses on his neck during an intimate hug, and whispering in his ear, 'I want you...tends to do the trick." 
🤩

"I will go to bed wearing only my short nightgown with no undies. My partner will invariably run his hand up my leg, discover the lack of underwear, and events will progress from there. 
🥰

"It’s usually when we are in bed about to sleep. I’ll just start by rubbing his chest and stomach, and then maybe lean over and kiss his neck. I just pay attention to his reactions and then start sliding my hand down lower and lower." 
😝

"I usually just have to kiss him, to be honest. Never seen a guy getting in the mood as fast/easy as him." ❤️



TIPS TO FOLLOW

*Be Demanding*
Grab your guy and tell him what you want. 

*Take It to Text*
Send your guy a text when you know he’s wrapping up for the day to give him a taste of what’s to come. 

*Dresse the part*
Know what to wear when he's around, short skirt, bum short, sexy top or slit gown. 

*Play Masseuse*
The whole massage/happy ending thing is a fantasy for a lot of guys, so play it out at home.




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Friday, 10 April 2020

To Avoid Break-up "Major Things You Shouldn't Stop Doing As A Couple After Marriage"

Sometime ago, I went to a restaurant for Lunch. There, I saw a couple(a man with his wife and son).They came to eat. Well, this couple inspired this write up.




One of the main reasons many marriages are breaking up daily, globally is sadly because after marriage many couples ceased to do the things they used to do while they were still dating or courting.
They tend to feel relaxed and be at peace now, after all they're off the market, little wonder after 2 to 3 years of marriage the thing become so boring and cheating probably may set in.
Before you married, you used to respect each other, you used to spend quality time with each other, you used to be considerate and understanding, you used to be sensitive to one another's need, you used to fast and pray together, you used to go to church together, you used to deliberate on scriptures together, you used to go to functions together, see a movie together, eat out, you used to be romantic and do a whole lot of other things together but now all that have been sacrificed on the alter of marriage and you're still wondering why your marriage is so boring. Sorry Sir. Sorry Ma.






Listen, after marriage, after you have gotten married, you need to start all over again. Woo your wife again. Don't stop doing those things you both used to do while dating and courting. Create time, from time to time, go see a movie together, eat out, shot the gadgets off and spend quality time with each other, unplug sometimes!
These are the things that spices up marriage and make it satisfactory and fulfilling. It is what you do to climb up you will still need to do to stay up. Why do you think the rule will change now that you are up?




Go back to your drawing board. All those strategies you mapped out for wooing, start all over again with your wife. Go back to your former activities. Go on vacation if the means are there. Spice up your marriage!
Stop enduring your marriage. Start enjoying it.
Thanks for reading
# StartAllOverAgain


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2 Decisions To Keep Smooth/Flourishing Relationship

Let me share with you two (2) decisions that has helped me have good and flourishing relationship with people I have met, including my wife, children and family members.



These two decisions will also help you to keep a smooth relationship whether single or married.

__________
One, I always try my best to do things with good consideration for others. I don't just talk, I will first think about how what I want to say will affect the person I want to talk to.

I don't just act, I will first think about how what I want to do will affect the person I'm dealing with.

So, I talk and act with consideration for the other person. I think about how to affect people positively. I won't shout on you because I would have thought that shouting on you won't be good for you.

When you think about how your words or actions affect your partner, your spouse, your neighbors and family members, and you are careful about it, you will have good relationships with them.
__________
Before you say a word, taste it to be sure it is sweet because nobody enjoys bitter words. That's how to act reasonably.

In case I have to correct you, I make sure I am extremely nice to you first and that you have become comfortable with me before I will calmly correct you.

Correction done with lots of love and kindness rarely gets anyone annoyed. 

That is one.
__________
Two, I am quick to apologize when I talk or act in error.

That's it!
We are humans; sometimes we misbehave, intimidate others, get unnecessarily angry or even fight.

It is not normal but it does happen.

When it does happen, what do you do? If you start claiming rightness in your mistakes, you will end up losing precious relationships.

What I do anytime I misbehave is to quickly swallow my pride and ego, humble myself and apologize; it does not matter who I offend, whether a 5 year old or 80 year old - as long as I have done you something wrong, I will apologize.

I have made up my mind to always do these!

What's the result?
The result is that my relationships with people are preserved! I lose nothing.

Yes, these two decisions are what God has been using to help us keep our home; I always think about how my words or actions will affect my wife before I say or do it. If I mistakenly step on her toes, I am very quick to bow my head in genuine apology. 
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Think about others. Don't hurt them. In case you do hurt them, be quick to apologize genuinely; I can assure you that you will have flourishing relationships. 

I hope you find this helpful?
Thanks for reading. Feel free to share.
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