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Saturday, 18 April 2020

( Reasons & Opinions) Why Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Marriages.


"During the time of our fore fathers, marriage were highly valued without minding the man or woman's material background,  nowardays, marriage is based on  whom you are in the society, and your financial standing at the moment, but when condition changes to bad, the marriage  goes down the drain"

'CONTENTMENT, NON MATERIALISTIC RELATIONSHIP, selflessness, non social media generation And no faking of feelings"

"It is just the fact that, women of those stage are more ,respective, endurance, and tends to support there husband.
But ladies of nowadays already have bad thought from there worst relationship and will turn it to to their home when they re in the marriage.
ASA song, my mother has never from that's Why I'm loving u,cos of children she suffer in husband house"





"They didn't fight a lot like we do because someone in the couple was made a fool n tolerated but as for us no one will agree to being fooled'

"Our heads dey hot, no respect nor submission"

"Too much of fake lady and woman selling their pussy"

"They tolerated each other more than this generation"

"Gain in knowledge in modern days"

"Our generation are filled with the words of gals are much Dan boys so Dey feel Dey can get whomever Dey want thereby never valued any relationship Dey are into, gals too be doing cheating cus of flashy materials things. In those days u are married today tomorrow you are going to farm,  love wasn't based on materials things,  love was natural nd marriage was meant or aimed at producing children,  not nowadays abortion support by boyfriend ideas or opinion in the name of am not ready yet, Our generation can never get better dis way" .

"It due to  lack of contentment and satisfaction. "

"Because there was no bicycle style,keke nape style,doggy style,cat style,lizard style,and there was nothing like,how long do you last during sex,nothing like beauty,handsome and financial status,the world is polluted 😂"

"Because there's no genuine love of our present generation"

"Times has changed, back then women had little to no rights, women had no education and no careers, so they were stuck with the one who provides and even if he did not provide it was an abomination to leave, and if they tried to leave there was no law protecting them. Up untill resently women still had men simply abusing them and doing what ever he want untill laws was out into place. But with all said women of the past persevered and did everything to keep their families . Now women can do what men do. We are entrerpreneurs, professional, and even builders miners, and pilots. And many more, so we can keep our own. It no longer a financial issue, so it's what can you do that I can't do for myself besides bring dick to the table. Just saying"

"Because are civilize world...the both sides are after money"


''Our fathers - Submission,, respect,, humility,, faithfulness and hard work from our mothers..Our present generation - pride,, ego,, rude,, cheating,, arrogance and laziness of our ladies.. Our fathers married queens but we are marrying slay-queens.."


"During that time 90%of women do respect their husbands and there is no flashy things then and flashy  things away deceive women another thing is that women of nowadays are very stubborn and arrogant hardly they submit to there husbands in the side of men some of them don't know what is marriage they enter into to have children that is why many of them flirt but generally women contribute 60%of marriage breaking do to their arrogant and stubbornness"


"They tolerated each other more than this generation"

"Dishonesty"

"Because they love fleshly, having been exposed to the technology age, where ladies see brighter than what they are made of, men see destructive pleasure more important than the love they desired, 
Marriage of pity, (Marrying someone because you have dated for so long and ordinarily she isn't compatible for you, some still consider to marry them because they think they have wasted their time and committed to that relationship, and also believing that with time the love will overpower the weakness of their partner,)  marrying a lady because she gets pregnant for you nd the culture and tradition banns abortion so you will be tempted to marry!  
Exposure to the world, some ladies that are already exposed to enjoyment of the earthly things,  such like clubs,  party, drinking, some smoking, and wearing of some skimpy dresses, tasting of different kanda finds it difficult to cope when married to maybe unexposed hubby and even some hubby finds it hard to keep digging an unending hole, 
Some says my wife pussy is too wide, 
Some says my husband does not satisfy me on bed and their ladies friends will give them an option B and C which is find a sugar boy or Divorce, 
Some of these ladies friends are likely married ladies that has been doing it, maybe with their husband brothers. 
I channel these last point as those that engaged in No Sex Before marriage, that's why most a times Sex before marriage is important as to enable you choose and detect the kind of partner you are about settling down with in terms of Sexual act. 
Ladies love to do wat others are doing, my friend Sandra's husband bought her a new brand Car therefore if you can't do as your fellow man, and so on. "



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Friday, 17 April 2020

Today's Tweets Trends! Gbas Gbos(War) Between Musicians And Twitter Influencers

A Lot has been going on through Tweets trending #gbas gbos between the popular musician ycee @ZAHEER and @Davido base on the Tweeter Reactions over Dremo's New Album.

Also between Zlatan Ibile and Kinglamar(Tweeter Influencer) 

Again Bragging to had battle with any Tweeter Influencers that Savage reply her tweets!

Below are the full details 😍.


"Ycee has a problem with Davido for hyping Dremo?? Man shrugging After Davido gave him Premium gbas gbos Ycee is now trying to play the victim. That’s what you get for not minding your business"

"Na Ycee cause today's gbas gbos with Davido and it's painful. Man was on his timeline hyping his investment, you that you are a force in the industry went to quote his tweet. What do you expect him to do? A hug?"















10 FACTS THAT EVERY LADIES MUST KNOW

There are some facts that you can actually benefits from as a lady that will help you adjust and change your opinions and ideas towards men.


1. Never depend on your boyfriend like he is your father, show him that before he met you, you are comfortable and without him you can still be comfortable.

2. Do not detest a man because he is not rich. Rather remember that, he who is rich today might not be rich tomorrow and he who is poor today might not be poor forever, Richness is like a table fan, it Rotates.

3. Never you say real men doesn't come to you when everything about you is fake. dress code, lifestyle, name, background etc.

4. Don't say men are just after your body when you show off all your body parts. The way you dress is the way people address you.

5. Do not say you have dated him for years yet he doesn't want to move the relationship to the next level, my sister every relationship must not end in marriage.

6. Do not say all men are the same due to a heartbreak, remember even the bible said: as our facial aspect differs same goes to our characters and lifestyles.



7. Do not hate relationship because of past experiences, rather know that every relationship is a lesson and I tell you, never you close your eyes because of the bad things you have seen because you will never know when the good one passes by if your eyes are close, don't give up on love.

8. Do not be in a hurry to marry because as God knows your birthday same goes to your death day, he knows all our profile because we are only like pencils in the hand of the creator, when your time comes it will happen just like death.

9. You say guys are not serious with you when the background of your pictures are always in a hotel room, Joints and inside different cars when you’re not a mechanic, on Facebook you have more than 4,353 friends, you are on bbm with over 1000 bbm contacts,you’re on 2go with almost 1000 friends not to talk of Badoo. Whatsapp, Eskimi, benaughty, and many more. Which means you are emotionally confused.

Thursday, 16 April 2020

20 Major Secrets To Succeed In Life

There are some secrets one has to take note of in order to elevate or succeed in life.





1.  Take risks in your life. If you win, you can lead; if you lose, you can guide.

2.  People are not what they say but what they do; so judge them not from their words but from their actions.

3.  When someone hurts you, don't feel bad because it's a law of nature  that the tree that bears the sweetest fruits gets maximum number of  stones.

4.  Take whatever you can from your life because when life starts taking from you, it takes even your last breath.

5.  In this world, people will always throw stones on the path of your  success. It depends on what you make from them - a wall or a bridge.

6.  Challenges make life interesting; overcoming them make life meaningful.

7.  There is no joy in victory without running the risk of defeat.

8.  A path without obstacles leads nowhere.

9.  Past is a nice place to visit but certainly not a good place to stay.

10.  You can't have a better tomorrow if you are thinking about yesterday all the time.




11.  If what you did yesterday still looks big to you, then you haven't done much today.

12.  If you don't build your dreams, someone else will hire you to build theirs.

13.  If you don't climb the mountain; you can't view the plain.

14.  Don't leave it idle - use your brain.

15.  You are not paid for having brain, you are only rewarded for using it intelligently.

16.  It is not what you don't have that limits you; it is what you have but don't know how to use.

17.  What you fail to learn might teach you a lesson.

18.  The difference between a corrupt person and an honest person is: The  corrupt person has a price while the honest person has a value.

19.  If you succeed in cheating someone, don't think that the person is a  fool...... Realize that the person trusted you much more than you  deserved.

20.  Honesty is an expensive gift; don't expect it from cheap people.

"What Man Need Is Not S3X ONLY"- A Note To All Young Ladies Going Into marriage

WHAT A HUSBAND NEEDS FROM A WIFE IS NOT ONLY S3X.

Sex is an important element in marriage and until there is sexual intercourse between a husband and a wife, the marriage is not yet spiritually recognised. This shows how important sex is in marriage. When you look at how agressive men are towards sex you may think that what a man needs from a woman is sex. 



Of course, if he has not married you yet or he does not really intend to marry you what he will need from you is nothing above your body. But if he really intends to marry you or if you guys are already married sex is never what he needs from you - maybe let me say it better; "WHAT A MAN NEEDS MOST FROM A WOMAN IS NOT SEX." Many young girls think because they are
 sexually active and experience they will

easily be married and have their husbands

loving them. And when a man approaches

for marriage they think the greatest asset

they have to show the man is sex. Others also think once they are giving out their

bodies it means they are giving out the best

for which reason they will be chosen above

all. There is this young girl who is very

beautiful and sexually active. Due to that

she thought sex is all that matters to a man.



Ironically, she struggled for long before

finally getting married. Her sexual dexterity

could not win her the heart of a man until out of the blue and reason beyond imagination a very handsome good man

married her. The wedding was grand and

her tears were now gone. Unfortunately

only a year after the wedding the marriage

fell on rocks. Within five years three different men came her way but none could

stay. The problem was simple. She thought sex was all that matters so she would never

submit. But submission is what men need,

not sex. It is time for our young ladies to

know that when a man is ready to marry he

will not look out for a woman who will satisfy his sex drive but a woman who will

submit herself to him. Excuse my language,

"every woman has vagina but not every

woman has humility." So when you are a

humble woman, you are an expensive

jewelry. And a man of integrity will fear to lose you.



Must Read For All Men: 20 Things Every Woman Wants In A Relationship But Kept As Secrets

Research has made it known that there are some secrets women keeps from their husbands but actually wants it done without saying it out.



1. Attention

Women really wants absolute attention feom their man, try to give your woman attention she deserves.

2. Pampering/Caring

Every woman wants their man to be the caring type, ask what's wrong when looking moody, check up on her.

3. Competition / Comparation

Comparing your woman with another makes them angry, always tell her she's the only one.

4. Possessive/Jealous

Don't talk about another woman when with her, or when watching a movie or trying kidding her.

5. Privacy

Let your woman have the privacy she deserves, trying to check her phone, peep on her etc, women  hates it.

6. Surprises

Women loves nice surprise, never ceases to amaze and sweet surprises, buy things for her even though it's not expensive, they really love and appreciate it.

7. Know Her Sizes

Knowing the sizes of your woman wears ain't bad, don't ask her what's her size of bra, panties etc, they love it when you finds out and know their size.


8. Women Hates Saying Multiple Women Interested In You

They hate it when you brags about multiple women are interested in you or someone prayer you on that.


9. Women Loves The Gesture Of Taking Time From Your  Busy Schedule.

Even  though its just few minutes, women appreciates it when you find time to talk or check on them.

10. Smells And Looks Nice

Every woman loves to see their man looks great and smells nice. Whenever you try to check, or go outing with your woman they love to see you looks good.





11. Playing With Their Hair

Women loves when you play with her hair. When when gisting or watching movie together.

12. Always Tell Her She's Beautiful

Every women will always wants their man to say they looks beautiful and pretty more than any other. They appreciate the gesture.


13. Hates Mommy's Boy

Women really hates their man can't do things without saying "my mommy said, have you told my mommy, my mommy must hear this".

14. Women Talks About Crushes To Friends

Women loves to gist about their men wether doing good or otherwise

15. Hugs

They love it when you hug them , either for love, appreciation, greetings, feelings etc

16. Kisses

Women loves the kiss gesture of any kinds, french, butterfly, etc

17. Holds Hands While Walking Together

Holding hands while walking together is a very lovely thing to do with your woman, they appreciate it, don't make her to be running after you while together.

18. Notice Your Look Or Reactions Towards Other Beautiful Lady

Woman notice the way you look at the other ladies either while together watching movies or on streets walking or while on outings.

19. Say The Word/Propose First

Every women wants their men to say the word first, propose to her, say what she's eager to hear from you. 


20. Respect/Value ✓

Every women loves to be respected and valued by their men, they won't request for this but it's something every men must know, posses and gives to their woman.


Wednesday, 15 April 2020

10 SIGNS A GUY WANTS JUST SEX (AND NOTHING ELSE)

One of the problems that women often face is that guys who are older are slicker about their attempts at getting sex than they used to be. What may seem like a perfect gentleman will just never call again once he gets laid. Sound familiar?




If you want to avoid this from happening, make sure to watch out for the following signs a guy just wants sex and doesn't want a relationship with you at all.


1. He’s straight up told you that he’s “not looking for anything serious.

When a man says this, for the love of all that is holy, believe him. Don’t stick around waiting for him to see the light because he won’t. He’s already made up his mind and that’s him telling you it’s not going to happen.


2. You regularly feel like he’s pressuring you to have sex or that he will leave if you don’t put out.

If a guy has to pressure you or act like he’s owed sex, then he’s definitely just looking to get laid. Guys who are respectful won’t do this to you.


3. He only calls you at night.

Some guys really aren’t good at hiding their intentions. Generally speaking, if he only calls you at night, he’s probably just looking for nookie. A guy who’s interested in more will make a point to talk to you throughout the day.


4. He really doesn’t ask questions about you.

Guys who want to get laid don’t really want to know you as a person. They really just want to ask superficial questions and cut to the chase. So, if you notice they are asking “bare minimum” questions, he probably just wants to get laid.


5. You get a feeling he’s already taken.

Is he married? Did you overhear rumors that he’s dating someone else? When guys cheat, they aren’t looking for a new wife or Ms. Right. Rather, they’re looking for sex.


6. He doesn’t want to spend too much money on you.

I understand that dating is expensive, but there’s something to be said about a guy who won’t even buy you a damn drink. Aside from it being stingy, it also is a sign that he really doesn’t want to invest in you. That’s not a good look if you’re trying to get into a relationship.
 


7. He brags to you about sex.

This is the big one. Guys who are looking to get laid who will brag to you about how they bed other women will never be respectful enough or good enough for a relationship. They just won’t. So, if you hear this one, tell him to get laid by other women because you’re not biting.

8. As soon as sex happens, he leaves. 

Guys who want more tend to hang around longer than guys who are just looking to get laid. They also are more likely to want to hang out with you without sex being on the table.

9. When you broach the subject of a relationship, he tries to sweep it under the rug.

Any time a guy tries to avoid the relationship talk, it’s almost certain that they don’t want a relationship with you. If he regularly refuses to answer this to placate you, he’s in it for sex.

10. Even when you told him he’s not getting laid that night, he broaches the subject again or gets overly grabby.

Yeah, this is a sign that he doesn’t understand boundaries and that he probably shouldn’t get another date. It’s often best to just tell them that you feel like they don’t take you seriously as a relationship partner, and that you’re not willing to date someone like that.


5 Tested And Proven Rules In Getting Right Partner

Many singles when it comes to knowing who to marry becomes confused . Many have been given superficial tips by some relationship bloggers, counselors or self-made relationship therapist. 


What I'm about to share with you would help you get it right if you could adopt these tested and proven rules.

Many I add this: marriage becomes successful when the right person marries the right person, and they apply the right principles for a successful marriage and they involve the right person. It just have to be right, otherwise, it'll be wrong. 

How can I know if this person is the right person? 

Only a right person can know who is right, and who is wrong under the right condition and influence. 

The following tips would help you to know who is the right person. 

1. Be the right person

It takes a thief to know a thief. 

If you're not the right person, it'll be difficult for you to know the right person. 

Are you the right person? 

What makes you the right person has to do with the rightness of your heart (spirit and soul) and your right understanding about marriage and life in general. 

You may pass all the basic maturity test (mental, physical, financial, social emotional or spiritual), but it doesn't mean you are the right person. 

A person may walk up to you for marriage but their heart isn't right with you because they have an hidden agenda or motive for coming into your life. This is why you can't fully know the right person through physical observation because the heart of men and women is evil, deep and desperately wicked, only God can know it. 

See, you are not the right person when your understanding about marriage is wrong. 

If you believe that women are done a favor by marrying them; that all men are polygamous in nature; that divorce is an option in marriage or cheating is one of the inevitables of life; then you have a wrong understanding of marriage. 

If you even marry angel Gabriel or virgin Mary, you will still end up with a bad marriage if you are not the right person. 

If the right person marries the wrong person or vis-a-vis, the marriage will fail or become an enduring one. 

Next is that you must... 



2. Be connected to the person who will make you know the right person

Sounds confusing? Read on! 

Man, with the best of all his acquired knowledge and understanding can't know the right person unless God opens his eyes to see the right person. 

Many are not connected to the right person (God) but wants to know the right person without Him. How possible it that? 

You need a personal and intimate relationship with God so He can reveal or guide you to the right person. 

Don't ever think you can know the right person without God because only Him knows the right person that will accept your past, present and future. 

Dear ladies, be so connected to God that it will take a man whose heart is right with God to find you as his help meet. 

Dear men, be a man after God's own heart that God will have to bring one of His daughters that He has made to you as a wife. 

Please, treasure your personal relationship with God more than church activities or being religious. 

Ask for the grace to love Him and fellowship with the Holy Spirit, as this would sharpen your spiritual senses to know the right person. 

More so...

3. Be at rest

Adam wasn't "dating" all the animals in search of the right person. God gave him a divine anesthesia and he fell into a deep sleep. 

Brother, go and rest. 

My sister, quit looking for Mr. Right. 

When you are at rest, you will be calm enough to recognize the right person when they come. But if you are jumping from Jane to Janet, or from John to Justus, you will be confused, anxious or frustrated in your human search for the right person. 

Rest puts you into a hibernate mode, while God is busy working out the right person for you. But if you are busy looking for Mr or Miss Right, God becomes at rest while He watches you doing it in your own way. 

Those who are at rest leaves everything in God's hands while He gives them His best. 

4. Compatibility

Having adopt items 1-3, you will know the right person through your agreement in so many ways. 

The right person will be compatible with you in your desire to fulfill your divine purpose. There will be mutual agreement in almost all critical issues of life, or you two can easily align your differences to reach an agreement. 

Compatibility has nothing to do with sex. Don't seek to practicalize it before marriage. You can talk things out if there are differences. 

There must be compatibility in goals, visions, divine purpose and in other important areas. 



5. Through divine revelation or spiritual discernment 

Last but very important, your ability to know the right person is tied to how functional your spiritual senses are. 

Adam could spiritually discern the woman as his bone of bones and flesh of flesh. The Bible didn't tell us that he dreamt or saw visions, there was a knowing in his heart that was deep enough and it was beyond her physical appearance, material possessions or personality impression - it is called discernment. 

More so, divine revelation comes through dreams, vision or trance. Only God determines whether the right person will be revealed to you through that means. 

Do not also forget that dreams could be manipulated by the devil or originates from your own thoughts. 

Dear readers, knowing the right person is not a rocket science, and it's not something you will know suddenly if you don't have a track record of an intimate relationship with God. 

Don't wait till you are ready for marriage before you draw closer to God. It takes time to know God and His ways. Start now, don't wait until you're "ripe" for marriage before you begin the journey. 

Remember, love is best expressed, and marriage is sweet when the right person marries each other and they apply the right principles, with their involvement of the right person (God).

10 Tips For Every Single Women (Preparing To Become A Wife)

Many women dream of that special day. You know the one, where all of the attention is on her in that gorgeous white dress. The flowers, the decorations, the fancy cars and let’s not forget, her Prince Charming. Most women have an idea of what age they will be when Mr. Right asks her to spend the rest of her life with him. She has the colors picked out, the ideal season, the wedding party and even the guest list! To many women, the wedding day is the turning point in her life that will lead to her happily ever after. Many of have focused (let’s be honest) so much time and thought on the wedding and the marriage such that they have never spent enough time and energy on the most important part”...preparing to become a wife! Marriage takes work! I am talking about 24/7/365 work! The great thing about the marital covenant is that when you give it your all, you can live “happily ever after”!




1. Develop an intimate relationship with God.

You cannot enter into a successful covenant with a husband if you don’t first have one with God. Seek biblical wisdom, study the word, develop a life of prayer and be dedicated to living for God. This will strengthen the marriage covenant when God allows you to walk into that season. A three-cord strand is not easily broken (Ecclesiastes 4:12)

2. Master the art of fidelity and trust.

No man wants a woman that cannot be faithful nor one that turns her neck at every fine man that she sees. Learn to 100% committed prior to a serious courtship. Be happy with what God has blessed you with and cultivate your relationship. It is also important to be a woman of your word. If you promise to do something, be sure to do it!

3. Develop the ability to take care of a home. 
Ladies, in order to be a great partner in marriage, you must bring the ability to emotionally and physically take care of the house. Learn to set a atmosphere of peace and love. Avoid quarrels when possible. Practice gentleness with others that cross your path.

4. Learn how to cook!

My mother once told me that a woman that cannot cook is not cute! We know that men like to eat. Let’s be serious here. We all need to eat to live. Eating out all of the time can become expensive and who doesn’t love a home-cooked meal from time to time. If you cannot do anything beyond boil water, invest in a cookbook. Try one new meal a week and you will quickly improve your cooking skills.

5. Make smart financial decisions.

If you desire to marry a man that provides and makes the best decisions for his family, you need to do the same. Smart men don’t want to marry a woman that spends way more than she saves. Work on your budget and be sure to have an emergency fund. Preparing for tomorrow is important. The ability to manage money is important in marriage.

6. Be complete as one.
Be comfortable with not having a man in this season. Learn to be happy on your own. Find joy in those things that make you happy. Love what you have and don’t covet what others have. Spend time in your singleness doing the things that you love to do. Travel, find hobbies and do the things that married women tell you that you won’t have time to do when you get married and then become a mother.

7. Learn the art of compromise.

Marriage will be about give and take. While you are single, learn that you don’t always have to be right and accept that most things will not always happen your way. Be willing to sacrifice what you want for the benefit and happiness of others. Wives have to compromise many things. The earlier we learn to compromise, the better off we will be in marriage.

8. Be committed to pursuing your dreams and supporting others.

 It is important to have your own goals and motivations prior to becoming one with your future husbands. The single season is a great opportunity to begin building your career, business or working towards other goals. Learn how to support family and friends in their endeavors as well. When you become a wife, you will have to support your husband’s dreams, possibly at the expense of yours. You must me ok with this level of sacrifice and compromise prior to committing to marriage.

9. Know what submission is and be ready to walk in it.

Many people shy way from this discussion. Submission is not equivalent to obedience. Submission is yielding in love. Study God’s design for marriage and understand the role of a wife. In your singleness, God is your husband. Submit yourself to Him. Trust His plan and timing for your life. Seek His guidance in all that you do. Practicing submission now will be the driving force to it being second nature to you once you become a wife.

10. Be holy and feminine in your conduct.

Always carry yourself as a classy woman who walks with confidence. Men want a woman they are proud to take home to their families. They want a woman with high self-esteem, one who walks gracefully, respects herself and others around her. Marriage is a sacred bond between God, man and woman.

Bobrisky Again: Blasts Ladies & Single Moms Begging Her For Money(Reactions)

The male Barbie Idris Okuneye popularly known as Bobrisky has reacted to the way Single Mothers and ladies comes to his Dm with pictures begging for money.

He shared this on his Instagram page, he said "some of dis ladies won't hear, not all the men that comes your way you open your legs for. Some men are useless, I repeat some of them are useless, after impregnating you finish they get Busy. When they are busy running after you their phones are open. My dm is filled up with single mother sending me baby pic.If you will have to have fun use CONDOMS. Don't just bring the innocent child to suffer. Pls take note"







Must Read For Ladies: Vagina Tighten (Advice & Side Effects)

Ladies stop allowing guys to push you into taking your own life by indulging in some certain surgeries or using chemicals.


Example is your vagina. A lot of ladies has developed cancer of the vagina due to pleasure from their men. Ladies don't allow any guy to make you to do otherwise, don't feel u are wayward or wired that is why your vagina is wide or deep. Dear ladies , don't mind him, we have different sizes of vagina the way we have types of pennies. (Large, medium and small). You can have a wide Virginia based on nature, sometime 
infection. 


Babies try to know the size of your vagina. The size will help you to know the suitable size of pennis. The size of your lip is exactly the size of your website. When is naturally wide and a small penni's enter, I will be labeled as a harlot while you are innocent. 

Don't worry, stop using vagina tighten because cancer is knocking, stop using soap to wash it because u are killing the glands that produces the fluids needed to lubricate and cleanse vaginal area 
Stop self induce( washing with chemicals to have a nice smell and small size).
 Some vagina tighten just swells up the vagina wall muscles then thinking it's tighten.

What u should know is dat a normal size of it is 3 to 4 inches and it can grow in size When arouse, some times arouse more than . This doesn't mean you are wired. Just do your best to maintain the shape of your vagina by:

1. Kegel exercise
2. Sex
3. What u eat
4.Sitting positions

Age can also make it to grow in size and d clitoris can shrink.
Just try to be eating good food for a healthy vagina like yogurt, cranberries,biotics and yeast and finally keep it clean and away from infections.(mind the kind of condom that is being inserted in your body, some are highly chemicalized). 

Lesson: Be yourself and avoid cancer of private bodies. On a very good day, guys we talk about the sizes of penis, stop enlargement. 

You can also read how to take care of your penis



Tuesday, 14 April 2020

Must Read For Men "Reasons Why Ladies Turn Down Marriage Proposal" (Opinions)

Majority always keeps wondering what can make a woman turns down a marriage proposal which is very heartbroken. There are some behaviours men must watch and repairs and improve to avoid been a victim.


Below are some women reasons about this.


'He doesn't call and when I call he tells me people he owe wants to arrest him....if I send him money he will say is too small that I should send more money"

"he was too  shorty ☺☺"

"He too brag abt his wealth but i taught him a lesson of money is good but not everything,God gives & can take it back anytime"

"He isn't healthy down there"

"He has many ladies at hand when I ask he always defend his self by telling me they re just friends nothing is but he sleeps with them. He use a lady pix as WhatsApp profile when I ask he said she is his cousin sis Secondly, he never give me money but always asking from me. So, I step out quickly"

"He always speak about his late wife I don't want to compete with dead".

"Instead of him to speak to me directly, he sent his Pastor.'

'He is hot temper ,he hardly forgives ,every little offence he reports me to his colleagues family members including my own family members which will call me to ask what happened without me having knowledge of what I have done wrong to him and also is what his younger sister said is final so I walk out of the relationship even after introduction"

"Cos some guys are boyfriend material not husband same goes to girls, it's just a point ok"

"Love someone else"

(Tips & Steps) Right Partner For Marriage

Choosing a life partner is a huge decision and one not to take casually. When choosing a person to marry, ask yourself lots of questions and evaluate what you want – the real why you want to marry.



Identify your best qualities and the things you can improve upon – what you have to offer. Know your own role and responsibilities in creating a happy relationship and recognize that it’s up to you to create the relationship you want. Look for someone who complements and brings out the best in you, such as your sense of humour and love for others. Talk about your differences and any potential problems that may arise if you do become married.

🔸️Be comfortable about yourself: You should feel comfortable expressing yourself without the fear of people’s judgment or ridicule. If you feel pressure to be someone else or act a certain way to get their attention, especially around the person you propose to marry, it is a terrible sign. Don’t ignore the source of the problem! Identify why and address the causes before you proceed.


🔸️Put Yourself First: What is your purpose – your vision- know your goals and what you want to do with your life. Then, ask would they support you and be a part of it. The person you marry should be the person that will help you grow and be a better person in all spheres of life, someone who will support you and encourage you to pursue your desires and dreams. 

🔸️️Identify Your Personal Needs: What you admire in a man / woman, how you like to enjoy the time you spend together. Write a list of the things you desire and the things you aren’t willing to compromise on, like religion or habit. Think about what kind of person you would like to build a future with. If you’re currently with someone, be honest with yourself: do you really feel good about your relationship or if you are waiting for something else deep inside.

🔸️️️Does the person want marriage as much as you: If you’re trying to find husband/wife, ensure the person you’re dating want to get married. If your relationship is getting serious, ask about his future hopes and dreams. If they don’t include marriage in their answer, ask them about it. If you’re waiting years for someone to come around, have a serious discussion and let them know what you want. Do not be afraid to ask this question, and do not put off asking because you are afraid of their answer. If you are serious about getting married someday, you should know if your significant other is on the same page or not. It is important you know.

🔸️Shared values: Discuss the biggies! Do you share the same desires when it comes to having kids or not? At least two of your relatives got divorced because the answer to this question was no. Do you have similar attitudes toward religion or spirituality? Do you agree about general personal finance practices — debt payments, savings, binge purchases? Think about how this might affect your potential marriage, family, and future children. Other things to consider are compatibility: how you complement one another, conflict styles: how they express anger, and lastly, don't underestimate the weight of this one, as it has had a huge impact on your parents' marriage: When it comes to spending time with each other's families (holidays, vacations) and taking care of aging parents, are you in agreement on what's reasonable?

🔸️Explore emotional compatibility: You shouldn’t have to beg for your future spouse’s attention. You should connect on an emotional level. Look for a person you can openly talk to and who makes you feel understood emotionally during times of hardship and in times of celebration. (Note: This is not about seeking sexual compatibility – there’s no such thing. Nothing about sex and our bodies is ever constant). Don't let lust be your guide!
Look before you jump!

Monday, 13 April 2020

5 Ways To Know The Right Partner

The major questions Singles have on their mind are:

1. How do i know i have found the right partner?
2. How do i know he or she loves me?

Well, these two questions are in so many people's minds, if you are one of them then this is the right post for you. 



There are a lot of ways to know if he is Mr. Right or Mrs. Right and if they love you. In this post, i will be sharing with you my top 5 ways to know if they love you and if they are right for you. 

1. THEY TRUST YOU WITHOUT SPYING ON YOU.

The truth is that trust is earned with time and trust can be broken in a few secs. So this is a vital key to a successful relationship.

If anyone you are dating keeps spying on you, if they have informants planted all over the city monitoring your movement then you are most likely with the wrong person. 

True love needs a lot of trust. So if they trust you, if they know that you won't misbehave even when the pressure is much to do so then he/she is probably the right person. 

If they allow you to hang out with the opposite sex that is your friend knowing you won't do anything stupid then add that to your checklist.

2. THEY WILL SUPPORT AND RESPECT YOUR DREAMS.

This is vital. Any man or woman who doesn't support you to pursue your dreams is someone you, by all means, need to avoid because is you get married to them its just a matter of time before you start feeling great frustration. 

A man or woman that love you will be your number 1 fan, they will be there to support and sing your praise, in moments you feel like giving up they will be there to encourage you and lift you up. 

If they go extra miles to set you up to achieve your dreams, sister, brother, hold them tight. They are rare. Add that to your checklist. 




3. YOU CAN DISAGREE.

If your current partner agrees with everything you say or do, this is a big red flag. No human will always agree with you in all things. No. Its either they are pretending or lying just to prevent you from leaving.

There is a place of disagreement in every relationship. So if you can disagree without hurting each other with words, then they love you and could be the right partner.

You argue with each other but it's not about who wins or loses. It about the situation. If they leave the situation at hand and start attacking you during a disagreement or argument he or she is not right for you.

So a sign they are the right one for you is that both of you can disagree without hurting each other. So add that to your checklist. 

4. YOU CAN BE YOURSELF AROUND THEM.

Let me ask, what's the point of being in a relationship where you can not be yourself?

You pretend morning, afternoon and night because if you show your true color they might leave you...

If they will leave because you can play too much then they should leave. It's better they leave now than leave tomorrow in marriage when you can no longer act that script of pretense. There is someone out there looking for exactly someone like you.

So, if you can't be your true self around them because they want you to act just in a particular way that pleases them then they are mostly the wrong person for you.

But if they love you for who you are, with all your craziness, stubbornness, annoyanceness, goodness, funness, laziness, seriousness, etc (add the rest of the "ness" you known) , then they are the right one for you. Add that to your checklist

(ND: if any of your ness is negative, try to get rid of it because it will help them love you more). 

5. THEY HELP YOU GROW SPIRITUALLY.

So as you know, I stand with godly relationships. For many people in the world, this might not be a standard for them, but for you in the kingdom reading this, this should even be number 1 for you.

Trust me, any man or woman that is pulling you down spiritual is not the right partner for you and definitely not God's choice for you. If all they do is make you confess sins everyday, sister, brother, they are not the one for you. 

The right partner will help nurture you to grow spiritually, they will initiate mediums to help you grow together. They will be your prayer partner instead of your prayer point for change always. So this should be number 1 on your checklist. 




There are many other ways to know but these top 5 is a good place to start, if they are failing in any of the above 5, well you have a lot to figuring out to do. 

One believe that the right partner should be good in these 5 top areas.

How else do you know he is Mr. Right or she is Mrs. Right. Leave your answer on the comments section.

Must Read For Singles & Married "Repair And Improve Your Marriage"

You Can Enjoy Your Marriage... It's Up To You! Many marriages are just for sleeping and waking up, raising kids and ageing together till death comes. This is not right. Marriage must be enjoyable and romantic.


1.Many couples hardly kiss and they only hug each other when they receive good news.

2. The husband only puts food in his wife's mouth only when she is terminally ill and cant feed herself.

3. If you see a man opening car door for his wife means the door is faulty.

4. The only thing that makes an african man touch his wife's neck is when she complains of fever. He wont touch it again till the next fever.

5.The only time he can carry his wife on his arms is when she is in labour.

6. If you see them seated outside at night, dont think they are romantic. They are only waiting for the smell of insecticide to vanish.

7.Many wives buy gifts for their husbands only when they are hospitalized.

8.The only time they race together is when there is danger and everyone is running.

9.The only time they go for evening stroll is when they want to go and lay a complain to the parents of the person that beat their child.

10.  The only time they bath together is when both are late for work.

11. The only time a wife looks closely to her husband's eyes is when he complains of dirt in his eyes.

Unfortunately, Africans feel that any romantic man is being controlled by his wife. They will begin to spread bad rumours. 
Let us just change today for the better. Let us learn to love one another and enjoy the few days we have on earth together! 

THIS GOES TO ALL MARRIED COUPLES AND THOSE PREPARING TO GET MARRIED SOON.

Friday, 10 April 2020

To Avoid Break-up "Major Things You Shouldn't Stop Doing As A Couple After Marriage"

Sometime ago, I went to a restaurant for Lunch. There, I saw a couple(a man with his wife and son).They came to eat. Well, this couple inspired this write up.




One of the main reasons many marriages are breaking up daily, globally is sadly because after marriage many couples ceased to do the things they used to do while they were still dating or courting.
They tend to feel relaxed and be at peace now, after all they're off the market, little wonder after 2 to 3 years of marriage the thing become so boring and cheating probably may set in.
Before you married, you used to respect each other, you used to spend quality time with each other, you used to be considerate and understanding, you used to be sensitive to one another's need, you used to fast and pray together, you used to go to church together, you used to deliberate on scriptures together, you used to go to functions together, see a movie together, eat out, you used to be romantic and do a whole lot of other things together but now all that have been sacrificed on the alter of marriage and you're still wondering why your marriage is so boring. Sorry Sir. Sorry Ma.






Listen, after marriage, after you have gotten married, you need to start all over again. Woo your wife again. Don't stop doing those things you both used to do while dating and courting. Create time, from time to time, go see a movie together, eat out, shot the gadgets off and spend quality time with each other, unplug sometimes!
These are the things that spices up marriage and make it satisfactory and fulfilling. It is what you do to climb up you will still need to do to stay up. Why do you think the rule will change now that you are up?




Go back to your drawing board. All those strategies you mapped out for wooing, start all over again with your wife. Go back to your former activities. Go on vacation if the means are there. Spice up your marriage!
Stop enduring your marriage. Start enjoying it.
Thanks for reading
# StartAllOverAgain


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